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Curated Groomsmen Gift Ideas

Putting together a groomsmen gift can be fun no matter what your budget is. There are some great options for pre-made gift sets or going old school and getting monogramed wallet clips or flasks. Check out Etsy for your handmade items and department store luxury at Bloomingdales or Nordstrom.

If you have the time though, putting together something specific to your groom and his guys can make for an epic moment. Especially since it’s a wedding and full of girly-girl sparkles and tulle, this is a great place to go with some classic bro-bonding gifts without compromising on the design of the overall event. AKA, feel free to throw in some cigars, whiskey, and some Tylenol for the morning after.

I’m going to show you what I curated for my husband’s groomsmen’s gifts and how I put everything together. Firstly, this is one of those projects you will have to have at least one conversation with your man about, unlike whether or not the napkins should match the linens.

What does he want to achieve with this gift? It sounds like a easy question, but having a conversation about how he wants his best friends to remember this simple token of appreciation can be the difference between putting together an epic “thank-you” for dressing up and standing in front of 100 people while people say sappy things to one another, or giving them something that sits in their closet for the rest of their life (*cough* every bridesmaid’s dress ever*). It’ll also mean the difference in money between simply ordering custom monogramed gifts or ordering everything a year-long beer-of-the-month-club. There’s a happy middle ground between your budget and your wildest dreams. Believe me, I’m an expert at toeing the line.

In our case, my groom wanted to accessorize our guys for the whole event from rehearsal dinner/Jewish wedding to the end of the party. Here are all of the components.

Now, unfortunately I don’t have a great photo of everything laid out like with the bridesmaids’ gift because once the guys got their hands on these, they were pretty much taken apart, but I did snap this shot on my iPhone and post it to Instagram while I was working on them. What you can’t see is the lid, which I had foil-pressed silver letters for each groom’s name, right above the cigar make. At first glance it all looked like one custom piece.

  1. Pocket-Squares – we got our pocket squares and ties at The Tie Bar because they are amazing. Everything is well-priced, there are a bajillion colors, and they are super on top of the current style trends. I’m honestly not sure how I ended up with the most classic of all wedding colors, pink and navy, but it happened. Sue me. We had the guys rent light gray suits, and had these pops of color accent them. The girls had touches of blush and light pink in their bouquets.

  2. Notebooks – Honestly, the dollar section at Michaels and Target is the best place ever for buying random filler items like this. What is a 2016 wedding party without a mustache SOMEWHERE??

  3. Liquor – mini shot bottles are the cutest! Knob Creek has a real glass mini bottle and my husband really likes them, so this is what we went with. It felt expensive and everyone could pre-game while getting dressed.

  4. Tie – See number one for all of the reasons why I love The Tie Bar.

  5. Clever Container – I went with cigar boxes for this because my husband and his high school friends hang out at this awesome bar in New Haven called Owl Shop. I tolerate the smell of tobacco because their whiskey and scotch collection is amaze-balls. This is an ode to his former bachelor days, hanging out at bars full of dudes.

  6. Fun Socks – See how I said FUN socks, not just socks? This is important because there is nothing worse than a pair of boring navy dress socks. Nothing. Plus, fun socks is one of Dan’s things and he thought this reproduction of “The Kiss” by Klimt was romantic and fun. Note: this was the only yellow in the entire wedding.

  7. Robert Downey Jr. – I put this in there because, c’mon. Don’t they all want to feel like this on their wedding day? Or at least their best friend’s wedding day

So there you have it! I'll update with some more gift idea sets as they come to me.