A Classic Spring Church Wedding Filled with Lilac, Lace & Soft Pastel Florals

Bride in lace bodice gown holding pastel spring bouquet with peonies and garden roses

Private home weddings may be having a moment, but there is something beautifully grounding about a classic Connecticut church wedding—especially one wrapped in the scent of fresh lilac and filled with the softest spring pastels imaginable. This celebration blended the charm of tradition with the romance of seasonal florals, creating a wedding day that felt timeless, heartfelt, and quietly elegant. And yes, there was a vintage car moment—because some details never go out of style.

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Emma and her team at First Blush were incredible to work with from the beginning. Emma was able to make sense of all the ideas floating through my mind and created the most beautiful floral designs. Our ceremony featured a baby's breath arch that our guests continue to talk about! The candles that she carefully placed throughout the property provided the warm and romantic ambiance I was looking for. I have nothing but positive things to say about First Blush and absolutely recommend !

 

Bouquets + Personal Flowers: Soft, Romantic, and Perfectly Spring

The florals for this celebration were all about embracing the season.
We built the bouquets around locally grown lilac, Sarah Bernhardt peonies, and the dreamiest amnesia roses, letting the colors stay soft and tonal: blush, whisper-pink, mauve, and creamy whites layered with texture.

The bride’s bouquet featured:

  • Large blush peonies at their fluffiest

  • Amnesia roses in that perfect dusty-mauve tone

  • White spray roses for classic structure

  • Bleached fern woven throughout for subtle contrast

  • Italian ruscus for movement and gentle greenery

The result was a bouquet that felt romantic, breezy, and deeply connected to spring—not overly designed, but beautifully intentional.

The bridesmaids carried smaller versions with a bit more greenery, their bouquets a perfect complement to their slate gray dresses, which photographed like soft periwinkle in the church courtyard light.

For the boutonnieres, we kept things simple and clean: white spray roses, a touch of bleached ruscus, and a tiny bow detail that added just the right amount of charm without competing with the bridal bouquet.

Spring groom boutonniere with white spray rose, bleached ruscus, and petite ribbon detail.
Bridesmaid bouquet featuring lilac, white spray roses, bleached fern, and Italian ruscus.
Sarah Bernhardt peony bouquet with soft greenery and white florals for a traditional spring wedding.
Close-up pastel spring bouquet with Sarah Bernhardt peonies, amnesia roses, white spray roses, and bleached fern.
Bride’s light veil flowing in natural spring light during church wedding portraits.
Bride in lace gown holding pastel spring bouquet with pink peonies, lilac, and classic white roses.
 
Bride and bridesmaids in slate gray dresses holding pastel spring bouquets with lilac, peonies, and amnesia roses outside a Connecticut church.
Traditional bridal portrait featuring lace bodice gown and pastel spring bouquet with peonies, roses, and bleached fern.

A Traditional Church Ceremony with Classic Details

The ceremony took place in a historic stone church that practically glowed in the spring sunshine. The bride’s look fit the setting perfectly: a lace bodice with delicate sleeves, a full A-line skirt, and a soft veil that moved beautifully in the breeze. Her style was traditional in the best way—timeless, elegant, and completely her.

This church had the kind of architecture that doesn’t need much help from flowers, so the focus stayed on personal florals and the emotional warmth of the space. Guests were welcomed into an environment that felt both reverent and joyful—everything a church wedding should be.

And as she exited the church, bouquet in hand, the light caught the lilac and peonies just right. Those are the moments florists live for.

Bride holding pastel bouquet with visible ring detail during spring wedding portraits.
Bridal party portrait outside church with slate gray bridesmaids holding spring bouquets with lilac and peonies.
 

The Vintage Car Moment (Because Spring Weddings Deserve It)

One of the most iconic parts of this wedding day?
The bride stepping gracefully out of a vintage white car, her lace train gathered in her bridesmaid’s hands, sunlight catching the soft blush tones of her bouquet.

It was cinematic in that effortless, not-trying-too-hard way.
Spring leaves glowing overhead, the warm ivory interior of the car, the bride’s delicate flats on the gravel—one of those quiet, perfect moments that tells the whole story.

Close-up detail of bride’s lace bodice and button-back A-line skirt.
Bride stepping out of vintage white car holding pastel spring bouquet with her bridesmaid assisting the train of her lace gown.
Interior of vintage white wedding car with tan leather seats during spring wedding arrival.
 

Reception Details: Pastel Florals & Simple, Meaningful Touches

While this wedding was earlier in your career and reflected a more classic, traditional style, the reception still carried a thread of intentional design. Tables featured soft textural arrangements built from spring blooms, with emphasis on making everything feel gentle, airy, and romantic.

Small touches tied it all together:

  • petite sprigs of greenery

  • soft linens in pale neutrals

  • candlelight that warmed up the stone and wood of the venue

The overall effect: spring garden meets classic New England charm.

Fashion + Moments to Note

The fashion for this wedding deserves its own moment.

  • The bride’s lace illusion neckline and buttoned back gave the dress a vintage elegance.

  • The bridesmaids’ slate gray gowns brought a cool, calming tone to the photos.

  • The groom and groomsmen looked classic in black suits, the white boutonnieres standing out softly against the darker palette.

There’s a simplicity to the look of this wedding that feels refreshing—nothing forced, nothing trendy. Just a celebration full of heart and family.

Things to Note

  • Local lilac added both fragrance and texture—spring weddings are the perfect season to play with scent.

  • The pastel palette was soft, airy, and ageless.

  • Traditional church weddings remain timeless for a reason—they photograph beautifully and always feel meaningful.

  • The vintage car added personality and instantly elevated the bridal portraits.

  • Personal flowers carried the design story from ceremony to reception, keeping everything cohesive.

Pastel spring floral arrangement with white roses and greenery on simple reception table with candlelight.
Centerpiece with white roses, lilac, and Italian ruscus at classic spring wedding reception.
 

Some weddings are grand, some are sprawling—and some are perfect exactly as they are. A classic church ceremony, a joyful walk into a beloved local restaurant, armfuls of lilac and peony… honestly, it’s hard to beat the charm of a day that lets the people (and flowers) shine.

If you’re imagining something traditional, intimate, or sweetly springlike for your wedding, we’re here for it. Let’s make something beautiful together.

let's make some magic
 
 
Bride and bridesmaids in slate gray dresses holding pastel spring bouquets with lilac, peonies, and amnesia roses outside a Connecticut church.
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